Hi i tried getting in your server but it tells be that the connection lost so do i need to be white listed to get in and if yes and can u white list me please.
Sometimes if you have trouble connecting, it could be the "route" your ISP (Internet Provider) is sending you on to get to the server.
If you reset your router by turning it off and then on again it'll be forced to ask the Provider for a new IP address, which will in turn usually provide a new "route" to get to the server.
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